Say NO to Situationships!


“We’re not together but we ain’t talkin to nobody else but each other.”

“What’s understood doesn’t need to be explained.”

That’s just my friend…”

These words my friends, are the basic recipe for what we know to be; a SITUATIONSHIP.

img_5162.pngWhen I saw this meme on Instagram a few months ago I wanted to know WHOOOO to pass the offering plate to! What has happened to the overall state of Love within our generation? The short answer to this question is that we fail to set standards and boundaries, and fail even more at sticking to them. The total answer is that our generation is pulling farther and farther away from the Greatest Love of All. As I said in my intro, I’m going to share things publicly that I’ve never shared with people on this scale before. My friends know my stories and some of the people that I…

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No Committment Locs

Listen I’ve always liked Locs, on other people at least. See I have commitment issues and locs always required an all or nothing commitment, one I hadn’t been willing to agree to. 

Now at the dawn and reoccurance of the crochet technique, you creative sweethearts have made a way to mimic Locs without the tedious Faux Loc method! 

I have indulged! As soon as I did, more hair companies are announcing their new crochet loc products! Wow! No excuses 

The brand I used is Afri Naptural and I purchased online at Sams Beauty. I love them! They are soft, lightweight and easy to install. 


I used 3 packs but I needed one additional pack. My head is big though lol. It’s an awesome protective style and very hair forward! I now know that if I did ever loc my natural hair, I would be one hot tamale! 


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CROCHET BRAIDS IS TAKING OVER Bobbi Boss currently introduce it’s first Senegal BOMBA dread lock & faux locs chrochet braids hair, for customers to explore easy ways to install dreads and faux locs.   The new  BOMBA dreadlocks are hand-braided and full to the core giving you well covered and bold dreads.   The Senegal […]

Product Review: Shea Moisture’s Raw Shea Butter Shampoo & Deep Treatment Mask

This winter in New Jersey has been hectic on my hair because this year it will be exposed in the cold climate. Before I did my hair last night, it was so dry and lifeless so I had to take the time to give it some love with Shea Moisture’s Raw Shea Butter line. […]

Natural Hair Restrictions Still Plague Many Women In Uniform

Jacque Reid goes Inside Her Story with celebrity stylist and star of WeTV’s Cutting It In The ATL, Mushiya Tshikuka, about the restrictions of natural hair in the military and the case of Jessica Sims, who was honorably discharged for not trimming her locs. “Women have been wearing natural hair for a really long time. […]

How To Grow Your Hair Faster & Healthier (Courtesy of Top 10 Home Remedies)

1. Eat a healthy diet   Eating a diet rich in protein and vital vitamins and minerals is an essential prerequisite to healthy hair growth. Opt for foods high in vitamins A, B, C, and E, iron, zinc, copper, magnesium, and selenium. Vitamin B-complex, in particular, is extremely important for making your hair grow faster. […]

Tapered Twist-Out

Step 1: Wash my hair with just my Pierre’s Caribbean Secrets and detangle with a wide tooth comb. Step 2: Add a small amount to the top area of my hair where I will do my two strand twist. Step 3: allow hair to dry over night and be sure to cover your hair before […]

Natural hair lines: Has hair typing created a new standard of beauty among naturalistas?

Going natural is a liberating experience, but some have realized that being natural comes with its own standards of beauty that may isolate naturals with certain hair types. Let’s explore the invisible lines drawn from hair typing/stereotyping. For many growing up like me, hair has always had a standard of beauty. Young girls were considered […]